Love comes in many ways and I would like to "HONOR" my husband today not only because it is Valentine's day and he is the love of my life but because it is National Donor Day. Wow - my husband is an organ donor! Never thought I would say those words.
Today is a day to honor those who have donated organs, tissues, blood and marrow to save the lives of others. It also honors the families of donors who have made the decision to allow organs of loved ones to give life to recipients.

Russ' story - the picture above was taken at 5:00 am on February 4, 2010 just before we left for St. Francis Hospital in Tulsa, OK. Russ donated a kidney to his brother-in-law, Jay. Jay has dealt with diabetes for quite some time and last year he had to go on dialysis.
Russ felt that it was laid upon his heart to see if there was a way he could help Jay. In talking with his sister, Leslie, he found out that they had the same type of blood. After discussing this and much praying Russ wanted to see if he was a match for Jay. He began this lengthy process of appointments and evaluations. It was determined in November 2009 that they would be a good match and then in January of 2010 it was approved by the transplant board that Russ would be able to donate a kidney to Jay.
The day was emotional - filled with hope, tears, joy, gratefulness, love, anxiety - to name just a few of the emotions we experienced. I am very blessed to say that the transplant was successful. Russ and Jay are both back at their homes recovering from the surgery.

Why was this put on Russ' heart? Most of my readers know, in January of 2009 Russ' son, Konley passed away from a brain tumor. It was a very difficult and emotional journey for Russ to watch his son die and there was nothing he could do for him. When he learned about how serious Jay's condition was - he did a lot praying and thinking about what he could do to help. He did not want another family member to experience what he had gone through, especially if he could help them. In many ways he did it as much for Jay as he did for himself. Russ partly did this in honor Konley. We know that Konley would of approved of the decision and would be proud that his father could help another person in this way. Russ had known all along that it was God who laid it upon his heart and that it is his will.

Jay and Russ just 7 days after surgery

We want to continue to thank our families and friends for supporting us and praying for us during this time. We ask for prayer for their continued recovery and especially for Jay - that his body will accept the new kidney as they continue to work out his medications. We have been blessed in so many ways through all of this. To Jay, Leslie and Briana - we love you guys!
Valentine's day is the day of love and donation is the gift of life. Can you think of a more loving gesture than making today, February 14 the day you join thousands of Americans in making the donation decision? How can you help? Click
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